Popular dancer, Kayafat Oluwatoyin Shafau, also known as Kaffy, has opened up about some of the main reasons her marriage to drummer, Joseph Ameh, crashed.
Recall that in January 2022, Kaffy, had shocked her fans and friends when she announced her separation from her husband. She added that marriage is not everything.
In a new interview with Chude Jideonwo, the dancer opened up on her husband’s dirty laundry which eventually led to the break up.
According to her, she had always thought that her husband’s infidelity was farther from home, however she found out her husband was messing around with people she knew, people close to her like her best friends.
She said it broke her and she lost her trust completely because she had always seen her estranged husband as a calm person who wouldn’t hurt a fly.
Kaffy said the trauma has affected how she views calm people.
She said, “If I had known I won’t have jumped into that fire, I thought he was just sleeping with strangers but I found out he was sleeping with my best friends, people I knew…
“I was thinking at the beginning that I had found someone to completely make me happy but that was selfish thinking, no human being should be your source of happiness.
“When you see him, you will think he can’t even hurt a fly cos he is always calm, and he has now made me afraid of calm people cos hmm, inside he is.
“I held him in high regard until I had to ask him why he was treating me the way he was. I asked him, what do you have against me, that is making you sleep around and with my best friends.”
She also pointed out that her last sexual intercourse with her husband was three years ago prior her separation.
