Nollywood actress, Seun Osigbesan, has advised women especially the single ladies on how to choose right when searching for future partners.
The actress on her Instagram page stated that the one has to let God choose for you instead of what the society perceives as the right partner.
She said it’s okay to build with a man but it’s equally wrong to do that with the wrong person because it will not end well. She said you have to choose the right partner because that is the major foundation of a good marriage
Going further, Seun said married ladies are not exempted especially if they find themselves in an unrepairable, abusive and toxic marriage.
She wrote, “To the single ladies out there
“Building WITH A MAN (not building a man) is not a wrong thing to do but building with the WRONG PERSON is the big problem here.
“Choosing a life partner is one of the major foundations of your marriage.
“And if the foundation be destroyed, meaning if your choice of partner is wrong or damaged even before you both start to build the marriage, it is only a matter of time my dear, It will eventually collapse.
“And as a single lady, you can still prevent a bad marriage from happening to you by letting God help you choose right!
“Marriage is still a beautiful thing created by God. Two are always better than one. And two will always chase ten thousand or even more.
“He who has ears, let ‘her’ hear what the spirit of God is saying and not what the world’s narrative of marriage is saying.’
“Addressing the married ones, Seun Osigbesan noted, “To the married women who are going through physical, emotional or mental abuse in marriage,
“The foundation can sometimes be repaired. But if you’ve done all you can and you still feel drained, then it means it is damaged beyond repair…The righteous can do absolutely nothing to it.
It is ok to allow it collapse so you can build again with the RIGHT PERSON. ASK GOD TO HELP YOU CHOOSE RIGHT!”
