The wife of actor Yul Edochie, May Edochie, has finally broken her silence over how she feels about her husband’s second marriage.
This will be the first time she would also be reacting after her husband, Yul, surprised her at a birthday bash thrown for her.
May stated that she will not be cajoled into accepting what is totally wrong to her belief and faith in other words, she is still not in support of her second wife.
May emphasized on the fact that she was content with her family, with her children, business and her husband until the second marriage.
She also pointed out that she doesn’t go condemn polygamy in general however she do not accept it in her family.
The mother of four wrote, “The ability to accept or tolerate challenges and problems in life is a virtue, and should not be misconstrued. There is no point making an already bad situation worse, hence the need to remain calm is crucial.
“I understand that we all have our weaknesses and limitations as humans, and I personally believe everyone deserves an opportunity to make things right when they stray… Forgiveness is divine.
“Beyond all unnecessary facades, Polygamy is a life choice and no one should be compelled to accept it. It is something I think all parties involved should embrace willingly, and it’s okay for anyone for anyone who chooses it. Some regions/traditions allow polygamy and I have nothing against it.
“However, I am ABSOLUTELY against it. However, I am absolutely certain that I will not be NUMBERED as a wife or be cajoled to accept a practice that does not align with my faith and family values.
“God blessed me with a happy, peaceful and lovely family in a beautiful and JOINTLY built ‘mansion’ that started from little or nothing….humble beginnings. What more could I have been asking for? I had a stable and loving home prior to the unprecedented events regarding my marriage .
“Life is made up of an infinite amount of choices. Most decisions might be tough to make, but whenever we confront our opinions with courage and confidence, we should equally be open to the paths of our own design. I believe that we are solely responsible for our choices, and we have to accept the consequences of every deed, word, and thought that comes with it in our lifetime.
“We should understand that taking life changing decisions hastily is not the best. God in His infinite mercy fixes things in His own time. He will definitely answer all our prayers. Thanks you all for your continuous prayers, love and support. May God bless you abundant. It’s still my birth month.”
